i have a friend whose wife i call "your hot wife".
it's sort of a joke, because i have never met his wife but i was telling him that i find professional competence to be very attractive.
and his wife had some kinda high powered job, until she took a new job that has some title like "judge" in front of it.
but she's spending a month in a major north american city for some training, and even though i've never met her, she's been very kind to me.
plus my friend loves her.
so i sent her a box of butterscotch cookies.
because when you're far from home, someone should send you cookies.